The LORD bless you and keep you;
the LORD make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace.
Numbers 6:24-26
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2021 Review in Blessings
January – the blessing of friends and friendship
Our friends, the Mafrici family were selling their family home to downsize. We got to spend the last New Year’s eve at their house. Our children had a ball in singing Karaoke and dancing. My son is quite a shy person, watching him sing and dance without being self conscious was such joy.
February – the blessing of work commute
Sydney opened up from the lockdown in February. We were able to return to work in the office environment 3 days a week and work from home 2 days a week. I enjoyed the long commute train ride to and from work where I did most of my blog post writing. Watching and observing people going about their daily life gave me a lot of writing material and inspiration.
March – the blessing of art
One of my clients is a painter artist. She invited me to an art exhibition for emerging artists where a painting of hers was on display. We got to spend time together to view and appreciate other artists’ work. I had learned a lot from the exhibition about the history and political background of each piece of art. I had never been a fan of politics or history until I understood them through art.
April – the blessing of diversity
We went to a 50th birthday party in Canberra. It was a South Pacific island style party. The children of the birthday man performed a traditional Samoan dance to honour their father. They wore colourful outfit and danced to exotic music which gave such a celebratory atmosphere.

May – the blessing of family
Autumn is my favourite season. I take a drive to Mount Wilson to see the autumn leaves every year. This year my family went with me. There was a storm damage on the road so part of the road was blocked and caused heavy traffic. We decided to quit the trip and turn around. But that didn’t ruin the day for us. We stopped by an orchard to get some figs and apples as well as visited a lookout to have a lovely family photo taken.

June – the blessing of fellowship
I have been in a women’s connect group for over ten years. We do a yearly women’s retreat. This year we went to St Benedict’s Monastery. Its serene surrounding gave us such peace and harmony with our creator. We did a labyrinth walk and shared our spiritual insights with each other by the fire. Our testimony encouraged and strengthened one another to keep living in victory .

July – the blessing of prayer
In late June, Sydney started its 2nd long lockdown due to the covid-19 case number spiked. We worked from home full time again. Only essential outings were allowed. I was able to stay connected via online platforms. I joined a few regular online prayer groups. One of them was our church morning devotion group at 8am for 15 minutes. I got to share our common love for Jesus with other brothers and sisters.
Another one of the prayer groups was the Global Harvest Monday prayer. Christians all over the world joined online to pray for our different country’s key events. We prayed about the Covid-19, the war, the government rulers, the election and more.
The most intimate prayer group was the three sister prayer group. One of us is in missionary work in Cambodia, so we gathered to pray for Australia and Cambodia as well as our personal needs.
All these three prayer groups helped me through the second lockdown. And I believe our prayer have changed the course of history.
August – the blessing of rain
We had above average rainfall in August which supported above average yield prospects in most eastern Australian growing regions.
September- the blessing of fathers
Australians celebrate Father’s Day on the first Sunday of September. Traditionally I treat my Dad to an authentic Cantonese cuisine to celebrate. This year we were in lockdown, so we ordered home delivery Cantonese food for dinner. I must admit he was equally happy.

October – the blessing of social media detox
In October, I deleted a few social media platforms to give myself more healthy head space. It worked wonders. In the process I had to sacrifice some really great contents like poetry and art accounts. However the benefit outweighed the loss overall. FacebookInstagramMessengerTwitter
November – the blessing of patience
Our apartment was flooded in March, but the repair didn’t start till late November. We lived between Airbnbs for 24 days until the repair was completed. We worked from home in the chaos of repairs all through that time because the low cost Airbnbs we slept in didn’t have Wifi or appropriate desk space. I also ‘fought’ my way through with real estate agent, strata manager and the owner. I applied politeness, passive aggression as well as outright aggressive threats. In the end the repair was done just in time for Christmas which was a relieve and of significance. So I thanked God for His gift of patience.
December – the blessing of Christ Jesus
It has been a very testing year. I am exhausted by the end of the race physically and mentally. All things happened and still happening are very big deals in ways of testing of faith. Nonetheless,they will never be any bigger deal than the birth of our saviour Christ Jesus. God so loved us and He gave us His beloved Son. If there is only one truth that matters in my life, this is it.

Merry Christmas
A quiet Christmas
With a book and an ice cream
Plentyliful of joy
Which God grants me
He lays open His majestic creation
Right before my eyes
And the freedom He gives me
Is no bound
While Christ lives in me
#songshare – Fear Is Not My Guide
致姑丈
文静内向的姑丈是他家庭坚实的靠山
工作踏实分担内务爱护妻子教育女儿
家人受益于姑丈的智慧是可贵的财富
姑丈不在了但美好的记忆如回声常在
Evening Ocean
The ocean is grumpy
When the evening is approaching
She got tired of the screaming children
She keeps spitting out seaweeds
Pushing them to shore
Hoping the stink drives people home
The sun quits being an overstaying guest
She is finally less irritable
watching it setting
She can't wait to bath
her clammy skin in the dark
Letting her hair out
to flirt with the moonbeam
My Best Is Poisonous
love boils down to ordinary minutes and hours it is hard to escape from the mundane of food, sleep and bathroom trips it makes it harder to please you when my cooking always falls short of your mother's the only thing I manage better is baking cakes which turns out to be a slow murder to the diabetic you
It Takes Little To Be Happy

Animals and children teach us lessons
They find their sanctuary in the midst of chaos
Joy is not depending on the external condition
They are happy when they see the world from a safe place
#songshare – Girlfriend
Don’t tell me to stop crying
Please just hold me while i do
Soothe me with your silence
And just cradle me to you
Don’t push me for my reasons
Or expect me to explain
How can i in five minutes shift
A lifetime’s hidden pain
Don’t tell your girlfriend about me
Cos your girlfriend won’t like girls like me
Don’t tell your girlfriend about me
If you just hold me… hold me… hold me
I went to see a psychic and
I paid for good advice
He said “forget a romance
‘Til you’ve sorted out your life.”
Be your own mother and your father
And your sister and brother
And even try to crack the art
Of being your own lover…
Don’t tell your girlfriend about me
Cos your girlfriend won’t like girls like me
Don’t tell your girlfriend about me
If you just hold me… hold me… hold me
In my darkest hour you’d be mine
These wildest dreams
Are no crime or are they, girlfriend?
Coming from a place of need
Not one of abundance
You see he told me, girlfriend
Don’t tell me to stop crying
Please just hold me while i do
Soothe me with your silence
And just cradle me to you
Don’t push me for my reasons
Or expect me to explain
How come i say i’m happy
To be on my own again?
Don? t tell your girlfriend about me
Cos your girlfriend won’t like girls like me
Don? t tell your girlfriend about me
Cos your girlfriend won’t like girls like me
You don’t have to tell your girlfriend about me
If you just hold me… hold me… hold me
